Get Jealous Of Those Doing Better Than You – Yes Get Jealous

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Is it wrong to want something you’ve seen with another person? Say you bought a car. I look at the car, and I’m like “damn! I want that car, really bad…”. Is it wrong?

Most people think that jealousy is a bad feeling. But I don’t agree with them. I think jealousy is one of the most necessary feelings you need to have for personal growth.

If you don’t feel jealous of those doing better than you, I think there’s something totally wrong with you, and you need to see a psychologist or a therapist as soon as possible. Your psych needs to be evaluated, to ensure that you’re still functioning properly up there.

How will I want something if I haven’t seen someone else using that thing? Like, say there was no iPhone. Like iPhones never existed, would you ever want one? No you wouldn’t.

There are people in certain parts of the world that have no contact with technology whatsoever. They’re still putting on animal skins and all of that. They don’t know what a bicycle is, not to speak of an iPhone. Do you think they ever think about getting an iPhone? Do you think they ever, ever desire an iPhone? No they don’t. Because it doesn’t exist to them.

So, when we see beautiful things that other people have, it’s a natural feeling to want to get these things for ourselves, to desire these things and feel like being in the position of the people that have these things.

But just like metal left in water gets corroded and consumed by the water, this feeling of jealousy can be quite corrosive and even consume you if you don’t channel it properly.

Jealousy is a form of energy within us, and you must learn to harness it and use it the right way.

Learn To Harness The Energy Jealousy Creates

Jealousy is a feeling of desire. And this desire creates a certain type of energy within us that can either be channeled for good or for bad.

Jealousy is good as long as you channel the energy it creates to do the right things. Don’t get jealous and arm yourself with a gun and wear a mask at night to go steal someone’s property by force. That’s stupidity paired with laziness. If you do that, you belong in a jail cell, and if you’re not lucky, you might get yourself killed.

Get jealous and work your axs off to get that thing you desire or even something better. You must learn to harness that energy jealousy creates within you for good, and not for bad.

We often see people harness and use this energy in the wrong way. They arm themselves and steal. They even kill, just to take what belongs to other people for themselves.

On the other hand, you see other people harness this energy differently, in a good way. They follow in the footsteps of great people doing wonderful things, and proceed to do things that are greater. They harnessed that energy jealousy creates within them, they work their axses off, they turn their life around, and do great things.

It’s the way you harness this energy that matters. The energy itself is not bad.

Copy Others

This is not the stone age. You’re not alone in the wild surrounded by nothing but forest and animals.

You’re not handicapped or unequipped without tools just like the early man. You have all the tools you need to improve your life right before you.

Today, you’re surrounded by civilization, the internet, you’ve got everything you need literally at your fingertips, you see people doing wonderful things you’d also like to do. And when you study them clearly, you can see what they did. When there’s success, there are clues. Success leaves clues.

It’s up to you, to copy the successful. Study the people living the kind of life you want to live. Find out what they did, and copy them. Don’t just copy, improve on what they did.

Put your identity into it. Because you really can’t just copy someone else’s life and have the same result they had. No. You borrow clues from it, and use these clues as a tool to pave your own path while employing your own talents and personality.

You must become jealous of those living your ideal life, and copy them.

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